Have you fallen into a Supporting Actress Role in your own life? Do you take care of everyone else before meeting your own needs?
In order for you to have you to contribute to the world at your best, you must step into the Leading Role in the movie of your life. No one is more important than you. And when you put your clients first, your kids first, your love partner first at the expense of doing what is best for you — you will build up resentment that will lead to destruction in the long run. Resentment is not sustainable.
So how do you shift this? You have to constantly check in with yourself and make sure that you are putting your needs and desires as the top priority in your life. Do you know what you want out of life? You must determine what it is that you want, and then you need to do that.
When you take care of yourself, you fill your cup to overflowing and can contribute to the world with grace and ease. If you need support around this, schedule a time to talk about it here: http://bit.ly/effortlessu